When you’re a leader, you realize how hard it is and you find the good in leaders of those around you. No, “if I was the leader” mentality. In fact, you come to the place of understanding that there is no competition and that we are one body, just different parts with different functions working together for the same outcome. You can tell the leaders from the children.
“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things” I Corinthians 13:11.